Lessons from a Hike
Welcome back to part 2 of the Tali Magimagi
series. Woven in this blog post is a story of courage and bravery. You may be
looking at the title “Lessons from a hike” and be thinking what is so special
about a hike? Well then read on!
April 6, 2019 the much anticipated day. The day
finally arrived after months of planning, mental and physical preparation, putting
it off and rescheduling the hike. There was no turning back for Andrew and I.
Andrew, my dear readers is a friend from the USP disability resource center who
is visually impaired. He is doing foundation studies at USP and loves singing. (Click
here to watch a video of Andrew singing "Walk On Walk Strong" by the late Tae Kami). April 6 was the day we attempted to hike up Mount
Korobaba. Mt Korobaba is located just outside Lami town. Most people dread to
hike up Mt Korobaba but put it off for reasons only they would know.
We started the hike at 11 a.m. as opposed to the planned meet up time which was 8 a.m. due to miscommunications. I am thankful that I had my friends Marcus and Jamil who accompanied us for the
hike. As we started hiking up the mountain, we were met with lots of staring
faces with mixed expressions. Some looked inspired that a blind person and his
friend are attempting to hike Mt Korobaba together. Other facial expression was
not what I expected as people started scratching their heads in disbelief and
thinking that I must be crazy trying to hike the mountain with Andrew. I
honestly couldn’t care as I made a promise to Andrew to take him up the
mountain. Isn’t being inclusive about seeing them as another able bodied person
and not differently? I had to keep this in mind as I continued hiking the
mountain with Andrew.
After a tiring 2 hours hike, we only managed
to reach the half way mark of the mountain range. Our bodies slowly gave up on
us and it was getting late that I started worrying about trekking back down
before nightfall. As we reached the half way mark, I told Andrew of what he has
achieved so far. I also told him about what awaits us in front and that it was
up to him if he wanted to continue on. After weighing in, he leaned forward to
me and said “This is enough for today. We will try again another day”. From
there on I sat him down to share a meal then after an hour of rest we trekked
back down just in time before night fall.
This hike has taught me lessons that I hope to
share in this session of weaving stories.
"We will try again another day"
Andrew knew that he was tired. He weighed the
pros and cons then made a decision to call it a day. However, he made a promise
that he would re-attempt to hike Mt Korobaba but this time he will try to reach
the top. Reflecting on our individual journey, there comes a time we must accept
where we are in our journey. Reflect on what has been achieved, rethink, renew and then attempt on your journey again.
Celebrate every step
Guiding Andrew half way up Mt Korobaba was not
easy. I had to be his eyes and instruct him on every step he took. When we were
faced with a difficult route we attempted it. Once we have completed that
phase, I pat Andrew on his shoulders and told him "good job". This made him more
eager to carry on the walk. In life we are so busy awaiting big achievements we
forget to celebrate every small achievement and
celebrating life itself.
Importance of supporting each other
If it wasn’t for the support of my friends, we
would not have been able to reach halfway. There were times I grew tired of
guiding and I asked Marcus to assist Andrew. Although Marcus was hesitant
because he was not so used to being a guide, he took a shot at it. He knew that
I was there to support them also if they needed me. It is important for us to know that there is always support available. All you have to do is to reach out.
Now it is time to trek off this blog post leaving
behind this woven story. Till the next blog post, keep weaving stories.
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Well I admit hiking up that mountain with you guys wasn't easy. It really does test your abilities as a person. For me personally it was a life changing experience as it was a first for me climbing up that mountain and of course helping somebody like Andrew hiking up. I can't wait for more great experiences with guys.
ReplyDeleteThanks Jamil for your assistance up the mountain and thanks for sharing your experiences. Nga Mihi
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